Finding Your RGW, Part 2: Becoming a Better Picker

Finding a woman you’re attracted to is easy compared with figuring out whether she is actually someone you should build a life with. In Part 2 of Finding Your RGW, the group will explore a practical framework for identifying a Really Great Woman while avoiding one of the biggest dating mistakes men make: allowing attraction, loneliness, or wishful thinking to override what they can clearly see. We’ll discuss the 5/5 approach—knowing the qualities you absolutely want in a partner and the behaviors you refuse to tolerate—and how those standards can keep you grounded when chemistry is strong. We’ll also examine the Relationship Pyramid, which separates attraction from compatibility and encourages men to recognize the difference between a Really Great Woman, a Good Woman who may still be wrong for you, a Wrong Woman, and someone whose behavior could make the relationship destructive. Topics include: Creating your personal “have to have” and “won’t tolerate” lists Why a good woman isn’t automatically the right woman for you Going slowly enough to discover someone’s true nature Watching behavior instead of relying on promises or potential Recognizing red flags without rationalizing them away Why meeting more women reduces scarcity and premature attachment Learning one of the hardest dating skills of all: ending things respectfully when you know the fit isn’t right The goal isn’t to find a perfect woman. It’s to become a better picker—clear about your standards, honest about what you observe, and willing to walk away from relationships that require you to compromise something fundamental. Come ready to discuss your own standards, past blind spots, and what being a Really Great Woman* actually means to you. \-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\- Join us every Wednesday at 6:00 PM for our weekly Men's Group meeting! This is an opportunity to connect with…